Why are women attracted to bad boys?
It's not at all what you think.
Keep reading because at the end of this article, you'll learn how to attract women when you're not a bad boy.
In fact, this type of man is even more seductive than a bad boy!
Women typically come to the knowledge that bad boys are draining after exhausting themselves with them. But at that point, they had squandered precious time and wasted chances they could have had with good men.
This is all because women never realized the true nature of their attraction to them.
Disclaimer: Not all women are attracted to bad boys. But we'll examine those that do and the reasons behind them.
So let's look at the real reasons why women find these perpetually melancholy types appealing shall we.
Women like to fix men.
Women especially like to fix broken men.
It's the nurturer part of us. The extreme nurturer part of us.
It's not simply a makeover transformative act of beautification; it's a makeover story in which the woman reins in the bad boy and has him transform just for her.
It makes her feel incredibly special. And it's incredibly exciting to know that she has conquered such a challenge that other women previously couldn't.
She's the only one he would ever change for. Therefore, she's the only one he ever loves.
Don't believe me? Just read books like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey, After, Pride and Prejudice, Wuthering Heights, or every other harlequin romance type of books--all written by women!
Are you seeing the pattern by now?
Women are naturally hypergamous
This is when someone marries or goes into a relationship with someone of higher status than themselves.
This is due to the fact that women produce fewer eggs compared to men, who can create millions of sperm. Women are biologically designed to find the best mate in order to preserve their lineage.
And if these women need to do some remodeling in order to find the ideal partner, so be it. A woman can ensure she gets what she wants by changing him into her very own Ken doll.
The problem is that it's all a fantasy
The plot makes for an exciting and romantic book or movie, but not so much in real life.
In real life, he takes her for granted. He never gets fixed. Her energy is depleted. And he never changes for her.
The bad boy's antics looses its appeal.
And in the end, all that exhilarating tension fizzles into irritation.
Oh my goodness, are you still brooding over coffee? It's just coffee! This is getting old.
So now the question becomes, are women really attracted to bad boys when they're trying to change them into good guys anyway? This is probably where you'd want to look into my other video that shows what women really want.
But back to this subject matter--how does a man attract women who are drawn to bad boys when you're not a bad boy?
With self-confidence and mystery.
A self-confident man is incredibly intoxicating and mystery adds to the intrigue. When a supremely assured and enigmatic man enters the picture, all female desires for bad boys vanish without a trace.
He's more exciting than all the bad boys put together.
Why is mystery so exciting?
Why do people love watching suspenseful movies? Because you don't know what's going to happen and you want to find out. The plot has built enough interest that you have to know how it unfolds. The human DNA is wired for curiosity.
So it's better not to divulge too much about yourself all at once, as if you're providing a resume or attempting to pitch yourself to a potential employer.
The thrill comes when you slowly reveal tidbits about yourself over time, piquing women's interest.
You don't need to spill everything about you for someone to like you. You already know how awesome you are. It's up to them to try to find out more.
Plus, who wants to watch a plot that's over and done with in five minutes?
Fruit flies. Actually five minutes would be too long as their attention span lasts less than a second.
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