How to Get Out of the Friend Zone With a Girl Fast

Is it really possible to get out of the friend zone fast?

Yes!

Oh my goodness yes!

Was that yes a little too big? It should be that big, because it's that easy to get out of being friend zoned. Knowing what to do is key. Which is probably why you're reading this article.

Good call.

What does it meant to be "friend zoned"? You already know what this means, you in the know. But for those who finally emerged from living under a rock--welcome to the sunlight!

Friend zone means one of you wants more from the friendship while the object of your affection treats you like a brother.

I don't think further explanation is needed on what it's like to be treated like a brother.

Or...do...I...need...to...explain?

Nah. I got no words.

But just to clarify. Friends and friend zone are totally two different meanings. Don't confuse the two as if they're one and the same.

If a woman or a girl claims that you two are friends. Don't panic just yet. It's not the end of the world as we know it. It's possible that your relationship is only getting started when she refers to you as a friend; this does not necessarily mean that she is not attracted to you.

If she comes out and tells you that she doesn't find you attractive, that she doesn't feel anything for you, and that there's no chance in hades that she'll ever date you, then, yep, that's friend zone!

However, it's not like you can't get out of the friend zone and remain stuck there for all eternity.

Well...you can.

You can get stuck there if you have no idea how to get out.

Fortunately for you, you just so happen to come across the key to leave the cold and lonely nights zone.

When a girl replies with 'awww thanks', it means she's politely asking you to return to the friend zone that you just tried to escape from.

Steps to Leave the Friend Zone

1. Stop Everything You're Doing

Literally, I mean stop everything you're doing that has anything to do with her. Don't call her. Don't text her. Don't hang out with her. Don't stalk her on social media or comment on her posts. Because doing those things will make you appear desperate and too available.

2. Disappear & Create Mystery

There is nothing that increases your value quite like scarcity. The ideal amount of time to take a comprehensive holistic break, unwind, vacation or staycation with oneself, and gain clarity is about two weeks.

There's so much that can happen in these two weeks where she doesn't hear from you or see you. This is the time for you to enjoy yourself, find the amazing you, and have a great time without her.

This is not the time for you to mope about and pine for unrequited love. Oh for Pete's sake, no. This is the time for you to enjoy life.

If she asks where you're disappearing to, say, "I'm out to live some adventure. I can't be reached for two weeks. But I'll see you when I get back." Then explain no more. Keep the mystery alive.

3. Find the Fun and Awesome in You

Nothing is more alluring than a man who truly loves himself. And I don't mean in a conceited manner. A man who truly believes in himself can't be persuaded by others that he is less than he is, so he walks and talks with confidence. His joy is infectious. He is not out to please anyone but his love for life and people shines through in his demeanor, which is exactly what women find sexy.

This is where you discover the fun and fantastic you during the two weeks without her. You become a man women find incredibly appealing, as you emerge from your rest and relaxation.

4. Return as the Better Version of You

You are now at version 2.0. This new you is full of joy, life, and confidence. A word of caution, nothing ruins these steps more than a man pretending to be happy, fearless, and confident. For you to truly find yourself and love yourself through this, the previous steps are crucial. So that when you see her again, you will see things in a much different way.

Even if you still love her, you are no longer needy, needy of her that is. Because with or without her, you love yourself and have a great time. You also know when to let go when she doesn't feel the same way about you. You are fully aware of how attractive this new you is, thus there are many people who would be willing to fall in love with you. And since you are amazing, you have no ill will against her.

And let me just add, that when we women see a positive, noticeable change in a man, something peculiar happens to us women. Even though we've known them for years and have never felt anything for them, it makes us tremendously curious and interested. Suddenly, the friend zone we had placed them in abruptly disappears!

I experienced exactly what I described. This guy relentlessly pursued me for years. I only saw him as a friend. And I made it clear that I wanted him to quit chasing me because he had no chance with me at all. Then he vanished for two years and came back incredibly confident, which made him talk, walk, and dressed so attractively. Before I knew it, I had given him my number and we went out on several dates.

5. Flirt With Her

Look her in the eyes, don't avert your gaze. Don't scan her from top to bottom like an X-ray machine. Instead, keep looking at her eyes as if you were peering though her soul, while smiling at her with confidence as if you were up to something exciting that she is not privy to. She will have no idea what you're thinking or what you're up to. However, it will trigger a variety of thoughts in her head that she can't even begin to explain. That's the type of look and smile you should be giving her. It's mysterious, it's flirtatious, it's incredibly sexy. If she asks, "what are you doing?" Respond with, "I'm looking at you because you're right in front of me." Then continue with, "If you moved a little, maybe I can see what's behind you." And then give her a mischievous smile. If she doesn't know how to flirt back and gets really uncomfortable, and you can sense this, pull back a bit, change the topic really quick as if nothing happened and say, "I'm hungry, are you hungry?" Repeat the fifth process at another opportune time. If she's the type who knows how to flirt back and does flirt back with you. Then voila, my job here is done. I'm going to go eat. Tune in next time because there's always more. It just never ends. It just never ends.

My name is Rochelle and I'm an attraction and dating coach. I teach guys how to understand what truly draws women to them and how to tap into the hidden yearning that makes women gravitate toward men. I work with men to help them interact with women successfully so they can attract the ones they desire in the most natural instinctive way possible. Book a FREE 30-minute call with me and learn the best way to easily attract WOMEN. Discover how to use pure women's psychology and female behavior as revealed by a woman behaviorist to harness women's attraction on an intuitive level without the use of tricks or techniques. Follow me on Youtube to get more insights on women's minds and ways to capture their attention.