You may be wondering whether all women are actually drawn to wealthy men after seeing the rich and powerful with an array of attractive arm candy.
I would most definitely assume the same way if I were a man who didn't understand how women really think. But since I happen to be a woman who also happens to be a human behaviorist and has known plenty of women in my lifetime from several countries and cultures, then the answer would be a big fat NO!
If I could make that No into a big fat font I would.
No!
Oh lookie there, I did!
If we looked back to the days of yore, the only option available to these women at that period of history when women were not granted the opportunity to earn a good living was to wed a man who could support them. The more wealthy, the better, as one man would then be able to support the rest of her family including her hungry stomach.
The necessity to marry Mr. Moneybags is no longer necessary in today's culture, since women have been given the opportunity to earn as much as they labor for.
Or did it actually alter?
After all, we see an 18-year-old hottie dressed in a nurse's uniform caressing a 90-year-old business billionaire. And I'm not talking about a lady who holds a Bachelor of Science in Nursing degree taking care of her patient.
A woman who is reared in an environment where poverty is the norm and where it actually exists will seek out ways to ensure that she never goes hungry again. And if she has that thinking, her only option is to wed a wealthy man who would provide for her throughout the rest of her life.
However, an admirable woman who, in spite of her background, believes that she is in charge of her fortune and destiny rather than a man who serves as her financial bank account.
Money only impresses lazy girls. When a woman works hard, a man with money is a bonus, not a ladder to upgrade.
Beware of the Gold Digger
Cue in Kanye West and Jamie Foxx song.
How gold digging became synonymous with a person who forms relationships with others purely to extract money from them, is beyond me. I pity the elves who go into caves mining for a piece of rock. Now their business cards have to be altered to, "Au extractors" instead.
Ways to Spot a Gold Digger
1. She rejects inexpensive gifts or dates
No matter how simple a gift or a date may be, a good woman will appreciate them since the fun is in being with you.
2. She has extremely expensive taste
A gold digger goes overboard in an effort to entice a wealthy man to pay for her luxurious possessions. A man once related to me the story of a woman who had a pair of $700 shoes and was shocked when her date took her to a restaurant that wasn't rated five stars since her shoes didn't go with the setting. FYI, most women don't have a $700 pair of shoes. They're usually under $75 and if we can get them on sale, even better!
3. She's materialistic and shallow
Buy her a gift if she's upset with you, and she'll soon forget why she was upset in the first place. This is how gold diggers operate. They are extremely egotistical and materialistic, and the only way to appease them is by catering to their upscale tastes.
4. Interested in how much you make
Most women are more interested in your line of work than your wealth. Typically, individuals are aware that asking about money is impolite and refrain from doing so. On the first few dates, a lot of wealthy guys want to give their annual income, even when they aren't asked. Most men equate their level of achievement with their suitability as partners. So they miss the cues that a woman is asking too many questions about it.
On numerous occasions, men have shown off their wealth in front of me as if expecting me to salivate. The reverse occurs, and I am utterly disgusted for the following reasons: 1) I believe that the man has nothing to offer other than his money; and 2) He gives me the impression that this is what draws me to men.
And I am not the only woman repulsed by wealth flaunting. Plenty of women are!
The Root of the Issue With Money
What therefore, in terms of money, attracts women to men? Financial responsibility is the root. Most women are looking for men who are responsible. Not necessarily wealthy men. Women merely want to know whether a man is trustworthy with money. Can he stand on his own without our assistance? Will he be able to provide for his family financially and be the kind of husband they need? Time and ambition are also important. It's not typical for a man in his 20s to make as much money as an experienced CEO. But if a man in his 50s continues to make the same amount working at his neighborhood McDonald's as he did when he was 19, a woman would worry that neither of their incomes will be enough to cover their living expenses.
I've heard a lot of men mention the myth that women only find rich men attractive, which prevents these men from going after the women they want. Such a pity because the same women that they're attracted to are actually looking for something deeper than a man's pockets. This is the reason I teach guys how to understand what truly draws women to them and how to tap into the hidden yearning that makes women gravitate toward men. I work with men to help them interact with women successfully so they can attract the ones they desire in the most natural instinctive way possible.
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