If you are able to lure a woman from another man she's with--heed this warning. If she can cheat with you, she will cheat on you.
I like to people watch, it's a habit I've done since I was 11. I enjoy watching how humans behave and why they do what they do.
At a recent event I attended, I witnessed a man persistently entice a woman away from her boyfriend.
"Just give me your number," he said with a convincing smile. It didn't matter how uncomfortable she appeared to be, all he cared about was getting his way.
She turned him down several times. And several times he had a rebuttal, one of which was "So what if you have a boyfriend, you're not married."
He persisted hoping he could wear her down. And from the looks of it, she was that close to maybe saying yes.
What if she did, then?
Do you think that if they did get together one, if not both, would wonder if they could truly trust the other given that they are aware of how easy they can be persuaded to act unfaithfully?
People try to convince themselves that happiness is the source of everything and it must be earnestly pursued even if they have to commit infidelity.
What if she or he is the love of their life? And if they don't carpe diem or seize the day now by taking them away from--whoever--then happiness and true love will never be realized.
The Pursuit of Happiness at the Expense of Others
Scratch that part.
Let's ignore at the expense of others as that dampers the fantasy and romance. Wouldn't want to think someone can actually be hurt or destroyed by this. It's all about our happiness.
Until I cheat on you or you cheat on me. By then I will care because at the expense of others means me. And I only care about me and how it affects me.
Since you have been a resident of this planet for a while, you are well aware that this is not a a unique situation involving people who are merely dating; married people have had the same difficulties.
Take for instance an article that a magazine publisher forwarded to me about their interviews with women who enjoy dating married guys.
Their reason is that it's the new modern movement and they're doing these men a favor: the wives get to keep their men, the men get their kicks with the mistresses, and the mistresses don't have to commit in a relationship that would take them away from their busy schedule.
It's a win-win situation. Win-win for all. Except for the wife and children that is.
Under the guise of "modernization," society has been urging people to adopt practices that are not natural to humans.
You know why it's not natural because humans can't stand sharing someone they love with someone else.
But they certainly don't mind sharing someone they don't love with someone else.
When we are in love we naturally despise being cheated on and betrayed by the people we have made a commitment to.
Infidelity is actually one of the biggest fears that women have. So if a woman becomes the instigator or the participant of such reprehensible behavior, it goes absolutely against women's principles.
So why do these women do those things?
Fear is the primary cause, and fear is what drives pride, which ultimately fuels greed.
Fear
When a person feels a sense of lack, to protect themselves in advance, these types of women would rather be in a situation that they know is never going to succeed, than to be in a monogamous relationship that would break their hearts.
Pride
Instead of heartbreak, why not just have a little bit of fun. And what could be more enjoyable than attempting to seduce a married man? What a boost to one's self-esteem it is when a woman wins over a man who has already been won over.
Greed
Now that pride has taken control of her life, greed enjoys going along for the ride. She now desires more. Nothing will satisfy her want for more because she hasn't yet grasped that the more is only masking the emptiness she actually feels inside.
Fear
We circle back to fear. What good men will desire women like them when they leave a trail of wreckage that follows their path? The only option is to keep up the same destructive loop.
To justify their misdeeds they argue that they are helping these men in fulfilling their desires that they are unable to obtain from their wives, and the wives get to keep a used husband.
These women extol their "virtue" as if they had accomplished some type of heroic deed.
Since ruining someone else's life or marriage will never truly offer joy, peace, or contentment, the reality of emptiness will ultimately set in.
You know what the mark of a good woman looks like? She doesn't destroy lives. She's careful not to ruin relationships. Because love, real love is about building and making lives and relationships stronger. Love is not a word to be tossed around and used as an excuse to hurting people. Because that's not love. That's lust.
So now the question is, how do you spot a woman who has a tendency to be unfaithful when she isn't blatantly letting you know that she is?
That is for another article. Why? Because I'm sleepy and my eyes are screaming, "Girl! Go get some sleep!"
Comment if you've ever been cheated on and what did you do when you found out?
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